January 25, 2012

The Cooperative Servant

"I want to throw the whole of my weight (such as it is) in the scales of justice, pure and simple."

Everyone wants to be a leader.  Everyone wants to feel important.  Everyone wants to be recognized for their efforts.  Martin Luther King called it the "Drum Major Instinct."  It is the idea that if you want to be a leader, you need to find a parade and walk in front of it.  While this is a common paradigm for leadership in America, "trying to become a leader" will not lead you to leadership, nor importance or recognition.  It will also not accomplish the goals of social change you may seek.  Dr. King knew this and taught this his whole life.                

Leadership comes through cooperation, not competition

"Trying to be the leader" puts you in a mode of competition, looking to defeat others.  "My success is dependent upon your failure."  It is a mindset where I cannot walk in front of the parade if you are walking in front of the parade.  Your focus becomes defeating others rather than serving others.  You put your personal success over the success of the group.

So ask yourself, would you follow the vision of a person more invested in their own personal success than the success of the group or the cause?    

No.  Of course not.  So stop trying to be a leader.  Leadership is a process of community.  Leadership is not one person working in their own self-interest.  Leadership is a group working in their own selfless interest.  It is based upon service to others, not personal achievement.  It is based upon humility, not hubris.  It is based upon love, not the need to be loved.  King called it agape.

"Agape is love seeking to preserve and create community.  It is insistence on community even when one seeks to break it.  Agape is the willingness to go to any length to restore community.  It doesn't stop at the first mile, but goes the second mile to restore community.  It is a willingness to forgive, not seven times, but seventy times seven times to restore community... He who works against community is working against the whole of creation." 
-Martin Luther King, Jr. in "Stride Toward Freedom"

Do not lead.  Serve and you will be called a leader.  And when you are called a leader, show that person how to serve.

We have to recognize that competition is the default paradigm in America, not cooperation.  Competition is also choice.  We can choose cooperation over competition.  Alfie Kohn's book, "No Contest: The Case Against Competition," argues that cooperation produces superior results not merely for survival, but also in sports, education, human relations and many more areas.  If we base our society on the premise of making someone else lose, we cannot possibly achieve loftier goals like King's dream of being judged by the content of our character rather than the color of our skin.  In competition, we are invested in someone else losing.  So, regardless of the situation, we will replace the defeating color-based bigotry of the past with immigration status, educational achievement, sexual preference, religious identity, political affiliation, or socio-economic status.  And when those are no longer socially acceptable, we will find another label to defeat people because that is the soul of competition.  Defeat, defeat, defeat.  And when we follow this path, there is only one end... defeat.

We must develop a new default paradigm in America: cooperation.  Throw out the idea of "climbing the ladder to success," corporate or otherwise.  It is yet another competitive model like "if you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem."  These are all competitive models that defeat community.

I propose a new model.  The scales of justice.  And not the impartial balance of a scale with chains.  It is the human scale pictured above at the Shelby Courthouse in Tennessee with the balance of justice firmly placed in human hands.  In one hand, we place the colossal weight of injustice; the unjust systems, laws and structures we have built that demoralize, defeat and dehumanize each other.  On the other side, people actively working toward justice.  It is not enough to have people who simply believe in justice.  Belief without action carries no weight on this scale.  The greater the actions, the greater the weight.  There are no persons to defeat.  There are only people who have not yet enlisted in committing the whole of their being onto the side of justice.

When we cooperate, our goal is to bring people in rather than bring people down.    

But isn't that effort itself competitive against injustice?  There is still a direction we travel, but we travel it together.  There is still a path we follow but we seek progress together.  Justice is created and we create it together.  The inherent worth and dignity of every person stands validated in the struggle for justice.  We must dismantle the unjust systems we have created and replace them with empowering, community-created systems where justice thrives.

Gandhi called it Satyagraha.  The insistence on justice.  The insistence on truth.  It was truth force.  Soul force.  Love in action, as Thich Nhat Hanh titled a book on the subject.  When we create injustice, it is our duty to recognize it and cooperatively restore the incredible, immeasurable and necessary imbalance in the universe known as justice.  It is right-bending of the moral arc.  The moral arc is not impartial, nor is it straight.  It bends toward justice, as King reminded us of the words of the Rev. Theodore Parker.  Our world is governed by love and the outward expression of that is justice.

So who is the leader?  It is the cooperative servant; the gravity that pulls community together in the harmonious orbit of justice.  It is the insistence on love and community so strong that it cannot be broken any more than the earth can stop orbiting the sun.

Choose to put the whole of your weight onto the scales of justice through selfless action with others.  It is the only thing that will tip the scale.  It is the only thing that ever has and everyone will call it leadership.

1 comment:

  1. Yes... we need to talk about getting you up here to Elon. Our students selected a word for our program for this yr...they selected Unity. they see a need for community and coming together, but dont want to commit and dont know how. We need to talk soon. We have much to discuss.

    Cody B